Friends, people with which we share our loving sadnesses, joys, dreams and yearnings. People of which we wait loyalty and confidence. For the company of the staff making in them so well, we pass most of time next to them e, for such we consider, them as sense ours second family. This if not the one that never we had Friends, people who understand in them, that at the difficult moments in they give the biggest support to them and, optimum, that they accept in them as we are without putting nor taking off. Friends, our angels of the guard in the Land.

Clearly that thus described individuals only incase themselves in that they are the truth friends. Although we call all friends, of pra to count in the fingers on how many we can count truily. Yes, therefore it has a great difference enters the group with which we walk and to that they enjoy of a close conviviality with us. Generally what in the league to a group something in common with it, either the taste for some musical style, a way is the fact of terms to speak, to think and to act; one hair cut, certain form of if dressing, some sport, and everything more than resembles it our way to be to the integrant ones of that group. Another things that attract in them by one determined group, are the hedonista logic of the momentary and no-compromissado pleasure: but they are valued here and now.

That is, the affection with ' ' turma' ' it lasts while the interest is remained to put definitive activity (the gone one to a party, a show, shopping, a game of vlei, etc.). Finished the activity, and after much colloquy line, the group if undoes, going each one pra a side, next to its next friends. Next to that already they are part of ours day-by-day. Ah, that great responsibility we in the choice of the staff with which have we will walk, exactly for the link it to be temporary. Therefore if not to take care, we run the risk to be taken for one strong empatia stops with some member of that group. From there without second thought, we open our privacy pra creature, and can finish contaminated for that inconvenient friendship. instead of improving as person, we get worse, being able to cause much migraine our family, friends and the society; everything for terms trusting somebody that badly we knew. Not we go nor to assume that we are of those ' ' Maria goes with outras' ' that the wave of the group enters alone pra to be accepted for it. Pra to only have somebody that protects in them. Before more nothing, we must be strong for we ourselves. High-they esteem up there! With our fortified autoconfiana, our widely known proper opinion, only is that it can taking in them to believe that we will be little subject to the influences of those values that the group shares, and with which we do not agree. Distorted values that can making in them to put the feet for the hands. Great step that of o adolescent route to life good, although to call all friends, is to recognize that friends exist that of interest in common e, amongst these, some few that is our friends of truth, whom they are our unconditional torcedores, that want optimum pra we and that, for people, is capable to put the hand in the fire. you, expensive reader, which its opinion the respect on this subject?

Very probably I wrote down, them while some manager of success heard or read. From then on, I applied a critical look to this material, decided to carry through a free translation and some adaptations of these tips, weaveeing, for each one of them some commentaries: 1 Is fast in the answers: The rapidity in the answers decides much thing and, depending on the manipulated number of information, daily very difficult to place in practical (and this has a great linking with definition of priorities, but this point already is another subject). However, the extreme speed in all the answers, can seem a strategy evasion e, in other cases, important points can not be considered, simply for wanting to be fast to use the idea of ‘ ‘ it is not more with me! ‘ ‘ At last, we must, before being fast in the answers, applying a well adjusted filter, in asking: ‘ ‘ I have all the elements necessary to give a fast reply that is not evasion and that it is considering all the points? ‘ ‘. Of another form, a fast reply with the objective to evidence to the involved ones that we are intent to the subject and that the definitive reply will be sent after that, also it can be a good solution. Stated periods need waked up. 2 hard Trabalhem: The tip is simple: ‘ ‘ Beba’ ‘ with moderation. To work hard is not synonymous to work the time all or to work very.